"BDSM isn't what you see in porn flicks. The image of BDSM that is portrayed in many materials of this sort has about as much to do with BDSM as the child's tale "Jack and the Magic Beanstalk" has to do with agriculture."
--Franklin Veaux
I love this quote from Franklin Veaux's valuable (and potentially Not Safe For Work) overview of BDSM. Veaux, the author of More than Two, has a lot of good things to say about alternative sexuality in general and he has a sense of humor that I enjoy.